Friends circle check shielding service is hot! Each price is about 6 yuan
■ Who will be blocked up to parents <br /> 谁Who is n't wanting to be seen by friends? When netizens answered this question, their parents were mentioned the most.
"I'm not completely blocking my parents, but sometimes I choose to keep them from seeing them." Liang Liang hasn't just graduated for a long time, and she is alone in a big city. Sometimes she inevitably needs to vent some negative emotions through her circle of friends. The catharsis does not want to worry the parents, so it can only be blocked occasionally. "Even if I send a picture of the open sky, my parents will ask me, 'What happened to the child.' This curiosity, oh my, I don't know how to answer."
Xiao'an clearly stated that she would block most of her colleagues. She didn't worry about fines. "Our unit doesn't have such a wonderful rule." Xiao An, who has a somewhat gentle personality, feels that work is work and life is life. Hundreds of people, I ca n’t be friends with everyone, just a few good friends. Others are just working relationships. There is no need to let them know about my private life. "
Colleagues are the group with the second highest blocking rate during the survey. Most young people like Xiao'an, who are more self-conscious, do not like to bring working relationships to life. "In the office, I don't like intrigue. After work, the farther away from work, the better. Shield the leaders? That's not dare."
■ Spend the money to check the blocking for a few minutes. <br /> Because WeChat's circle of friends has become more and more important in the society, services specifically targeted at circle of friends have also appeared. In an online shopping platform, there are about hundreds of online stores that provide "check and block, check active, and check who blocked you" services.
The reporter contacted one of the online stores, and the customer service said that it only took a few bucks and a few minutes to find out who blocked you in the WeChat address book. The reporter tried it a bit, it was very simple. After placing the order, the customer service sent a URL and a string of passwords. Open the webpage, enter the password, a two-dimensional code will be generated, and then scan the code, and the mobile phone WeChat begins to enter a process similar to "self-test". After a few minutes, in the file transfer assistant dialog box, you can see who has blocked reporters in the WeChat address book, and who has not updated the circle of friends for a long time.
Customer service has repeatedly emphasized that this service does not involve privacy and that contacts in the address book are never noticed. When asked who would buy this service, customer service only responded with two words-Weishang.
On the online shopping platform, the store with the highest sales volume of search and screening services sold over 2,600 pens a month, each priced at about 6 yuan.
Opinion masking has redefined the boundaries for us. "Everything is caused by blurry boundaries." Psychologist Su Chao told reporters that the blurring of boundaries in society has caused a lot of embarrassment. Masking is just a way to avoid embarrassment and redefine boundaries.
A leader who fines an employee for blocking a circle of friends is a typical behavior with blurred boundaries. Parents, colleagues, friends have similar problems. "Especially for our younger generation, the only children. Parents have more respect for us and their boundaries are not clear. Therefore, children sometimes need to play two roles. One is the role of interacting with parents, the other belongs to Yourself. "
Su Chao believes that if a relationship like a colleague or friend knows that the other party has blocked themselves, it is not necessary to be too excited, otherwise it will be a little "too ego".
Check to see if it is blocked by purchasing services. Except for Weishang, if ordinary people do the same, Su Chao thinks that this kind of people will have some social fear. "They have no sense of security. They can only control the relationship by controlling people, but not the relationship. Per se. For example, if two parties in a relationship do n’t control the other person, they wo n’t know if they will be broken up. ”
And young people use groups to achieve the purpose of shielding. Su Chao feels that this is the help brought by technology. "The post-90s generation is the Internet generation. They know how to use technology to make the Internet socialization more comfortable. This is an improvement. Some people may think that social media has deformed the social of modern people. I don't think so. Technology or the tool itself is not wrong, it is the wrong person. Tools like WeChat grouping and tagging are actually helping us. In modern society, in addition to WeChat, there is also Douyin, there are small videos, and socializing in the past is no longer possible. "
.Beijing Evening News